What is the "best" type of rope to use for erotic play (bondage). I once read that marine/boating is best. Any websites or stores where I may purchase this kind of rope would be most appreciated.
Thanks in advance,
LaSha' |
- Go to your local hardware store, ship supply store, Home Depot, Wal Mart... Avoid only "bondage rope", it's too expensive.
- Look for the softest rope you can find, nylon is best IMO, size 3/8" is good for starters. Hemp is better, but more expensive.
- Take any colors you fancy. Don't buy pre-packaged rope, only rope you can feel.
- Buy 100 feet total. Buy also some 1" wide colored electrical tape.
- At home cut the rope in pieces, one of 50', four of 12'.
- Wrap some overlapping layers of tape on the ends of the rope. This is to prevent the rope from fraying and unraveling.
- Wash regularly, with the advantage that it gets softer.
You have now enough rope, to tie someone spreadeagle,
to tie a rope harness, hogtie somebody, all for 40 dollars or so. |
What does it signify about a woman if she's into erotic fantasy art--this seems to be a recent subculture? Similar to the new Twilight craze for teens only for women 25-45.
It's almost the equivalent of the modern day pin-up girl, but with a BDSM spin--dirty/edgy, heavy makeup, exotic lingerie, tattoos, wings, maybe some bondage and a sword. It's borderline porn but sells in American malls on calendars without restriction.
It almost seems like a subdued expression of lesbianism, but many or most of these women claim they're straight. |
| I only like that kind of artwork if there are a couple of subs in it to do her bidding. Otherwise, just a Domme by herself would not interest me. As Rio said, it's about putting yourself in the woman's place, not being with her yourself. I don't think I'd want a calendar like that, though, lol. I like my kittens and landscapes. ;-) |
Romance/Erotica books without the paranormal/bondage? I am in search of good erotic romance or erotica that doesn't stray into the realm of vampires/wolves or fetishes like bondage and whips. I have seen much on authors such as Anais Nin, and books like Fanny Hill. What is out there that is... "traditional"... Without the above topics, and relatively current? |
| Try the Breeds books by Lora Leigh |
Married couples: Besides threesomes what can you do in bed when you've done absolutely everything? Watched porn, made porn, erotic stories, anal, bondage, weed, a bunch of other stuff... We've done just everything. It's just normal to us and boring now. What can we do to spice up our sex life besides threesomes and swinging? |
| go to nude beaches or nude clubs. My wife and I go to a nude club in town theirs a bar, dance floor and dark rooms. We will have a 3 some every now and then she gets to pick the guy she'd like to do it with and we have fun. I'd rather she do it with me than behind my back. |
Erotic stories? Where can I find some good erotic stories and poetry? Specifically about bondage. |
www.literotica.com
It's not the best one around. There are plenty of stories though. All from random people so you will get your fair share of lousy literature. It doesn't focus on bdsm, but it has plenty of it. Then there are links on there to other sites you might like. Just check it out. |
What do people want in bondage fiction? I recently wrote a short novel (Bound to Die, Amazon.com) that is somewhere between a mainstream mystery and an erotic story. People that read it seem to like it so I think its well written - BUT... typical people don't pick it up because its about bondage and bondage lovers don't read it because its too tame. I really thought there would be a lot of people with hidden bondage thoughts that would enjoy such a novel... it seems I am wrong. I really would like to reach people that have such thoughts but aren't ready to buy erotic material. Can anyone offer insights or suggestions that might help me? |
| I like your question and must say I disagree with the first answer. I think there are many vanilla people that have secret interests in bondage. That's why you see it in so many movies and in so many TV shows (CSI is a good example). Let me say that I have read the book in question (I really enjoyed it, not just because I am into bondage, but because it was not just about erotic sex - I loved having real characters with real problems dealing with their feelings about bondage). I think the reason most vanilla people are not buying your book is perhaps the cover. I think they would love to read it, but the cover suggests kinky thoughts and they don't want it to be found by neighbors or friends that might start questioning them about their ideas in the area. That said, I don't really have a solution for you. I think bondage enthusiasts would love a real story involving bondage if they gave it a chance. I also believe that many people not into bondage on the surface would enjoy the real discussions in the book of why people enjoy bondage. Getting people to understand these ideas probably requires marketing that is way beyond my abilities. Hope this sheds some light, as I personally would love to see more fiction of this quality about bondage. |
Does anybody know of any good male bondage movies not rated x? I have a friend that has an erotic view of this, not my gf anymore, just friends, she said that red scorpion was a good movie, but wanted to know if there were any others |
Why dont you try typing it into your search engine, you are bound to get a zillion links to all sort of stuff.
happy hunting. |
Someone put my photo without asking..? A friend of a friend has put a photo of me on the internet. It was taken about 8 years ago. I was out with the crowd when it was taken (and yes i was fully clothed). I typed my name into Google for interest and it came up. Also on there were various friends at parties at home and us at gigs around town.
The problem i have is that there is a link under these innocent photos inviting people to visit another site.
On visiting it i discovered it is an erotic/bondage photo site.
I didn't know this guy was putting us on the web and i don't want to be associated with his other site.
What can i do? Where do i go to complain/get pics taken off?
Serious, genuine replies only please. |
There's not much that you can do about this but you can e-mail the search engine and ask if the link from the search engine to the site could be removed as it contains unauthorised pictures. You could then go one step further by asking the website owner or the domain host to remove the page from their site. You should be able to find a contact page on decent websites. The host may not allow this so you could write threatening to take them to your local UK small claims court.
Good Luck,
Richard |
Something slightly erotic. How is this.? "deeper"
You take me places I've never been,
Exploring my darkest desire for sin.
To levels I thought that I'd never see,
The darker side, it set our love free.
You introduced me to bondage for play,
I still fantasize that most beautiful day.
So trusting my love, even when my skin bled,
You explained it to me and my heart it heard.
You reached right out and stroked my heart,
Things I had dreamed of, we will never part.
I trust you with all, no questions my dear,
When you took my hand, I lost all my fear.
As we progress, to the very next step,
Our secrets you shared, I always kept.
All of my life I spent looking for you,
Finally found, we have so much to do. |
Whooo, sssssssssssmmmmmmmooooookkkkkkkkiiiiiiii…
Loved the flamage in this DP, awesome my friend @)~>~ |
Weird Question but...? I think that i am insane. sounds weird right? well i am completely serious.
i'm 16 and of course very hormonal (use your imagination, trying to keep it PG)
but in a weird way. i love the idea of erotic asphyxiation, bondage and torture.
I have violent fantasy's in the middle of the school day. For example if a teacher says i answered a question incorrectly, i imagine me killing them in the slowest most painful way imaginable in my head. I also have a fascination with serial murder and other crimes.
I notice small minute errors in every thing especially spelling. I have almost no interest in driving or anything else a "normal" teenager would love.
I have friends, but i don't relate to them well.
I got really long brown hair and i love metal music. my counselor says my music affects the way i think but.....i don't know.
Just help me out.
Am insane, or am i just weird. |
maybe you should talk to someone about your situation like a physocolist
or a councler and talk it out with your parents and discuss things with them so they can help you because you shouldnt feel that way your not weird or insane you just need help maybe cause its past experiences! good luck |